But dont be too deceived when a guy tells you he hasnt loved anyone like he loves you. He Acts Eager Before Acting Distant If a man is interested in you romantically but pulls away after being open, they may be hesitant to pursue a connection. Unable to commit and make his own decision on which girl to date, he keeps a couple of you in rotation. But if hes going out of his way to make sure youre not meeting anyone he knows, its clear. This is typically the case with exs who cant seem to make up their minds. The best sign is when, after you ask him if he'd like to hang out and get some coffee, he says, "Heck yes!" Guys like this usually avoid anything that has to do with talking for long periods. Youre the one putting in all the effort and planning. NDZiYmIyMDE3OTdmY2U3NDM0NmY1ZDYxNTNmOGFjZGYwYjNhMTBiMmUyMzM2 I talked briefly about this concept above. Because truthfully, it doesnt happen very often. I don't care how busy they are; if things were going to progress, you'd be hanging more than once a week.". He suggests meeting up and actively tries to schedule a date. And the weekend after that. What a total role reversal. Don't find excuses for his bad behavior, and don't blame yourself. This is because he is shy and may even stumble on his words. There are almost always particular experiences that play into a mans shyness or embarrassment around acceptingcompliments. There's nothing crueler than a guy who gives you false hope, such as the guy who tells you that he's not ready to be in an exclusive relationship right now but he will in time. If hes scared of the futurethe future with youcome on, leave him now. This can be painfully difficult to identify if you have strong feelings towards him. 1. You shouldnt. Im so sorry that youve had such a terrible experience with women giving you compliments. Other times, theres nothing. As much as that sucks, it will make you happier. NzA5MDdkYmYwODUzYWRiMmViMzg3M2EwZmVlNGVhMDM1OWU5ZjMzMjZiZWYx NWU2NmRhM2Q1MDg3NDE1ZDU1NTM2ZGQyNGY3ODNlYTc2Mjg0ZjYwNzdmYjk5 He Doesn't Take His Future Seriously. When he says "it's complicated" - this is what he actually means There are others, or someone else It could be that you're not the only one in his carousel of prospects. He loves being around you but hes afraid that this relationship might end up being like his last one, and he doesnt want to commit before knowing for sure that he wont experience the same kind of overwhelming heartache. Using the "it's complicated" excuse probably also means he's dragging his feet because he fears commitment. It will always feel like theres a part of him that is hidden from you, and hes doing that intentionally so that when he ultimately leaves, he wont feel as guilty about it. And relationship psychologist James Bauer offers one of the best ways to do this. You can only support this relationship to a certain extent. You're absolutely right to think this! Instead of making promises, he'll take action. This is because men have a built-in desire for something greater that goes beyond love or sex. Youre never the reason why he gets out of bed; youre just another item he checks off the list. He's really saying that his life's too complicated for him to bring a committed relationship with you into it. He doesn't plan ahead [with you]. He Has Problems To Work Out Sign Number 6: He Tells You He Doesn't Want A Relationship With You. Why yes, a home date is incomparable. It's not an easy rejection to swallow, but it's best done fast so you can move on. Like being shy, a guy who has insecurities is also likely to hesitate to meet you physically. //